Back when the Kids Dressed Up, Danced, and Performed

A Blended Family Legacy Foto-Essay of kids in Dragonfly Community,

Greater Seattle, circa 1995 – 2010

***Graphic heavy with 107 fotos & 12 avi.avi videos. Yes, 107 pictures and 12 videos! Plus a long read. Please allow TIME for individual fotos to download. You may possibly need to download a free AVI (Audio Video Interleave) movie converter. Or not. Some of the videos require two clicks to access the video, and once finished, 1 or 2 clicks back to return to the main article. Other videos require only one click away and one click back. Only takes a few seconds at the most. Hey, it’s worth it! There’s a bit of family history here below. Enjoy!***

1. Dragonfly Community

Pop Stars! The Three Dragonfly Sisters performing at the Yellow Dragonfly House, in the Seattle neighborhoods of upper-upper Fremont south of the Woodland Park Zoo. Left to right are Kate, age 6, Morgan, age 10, & Talia, age 2. Foto taken with Kristina’s Canon PowerShot A40 on Saturday 7 August 2004.

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Twin Falls on a February Sunday: A Dog, Kids, Love, & Waterfalls

A Family Dayhike into the Twin Falls Natural Area, Olallie State Park, Washington,
Sunday 13 February 2005

*This is a work in progress as rediscovering “lost” stories, documents, & pictures salvaged from the 2010 Fire continues. Have fun anyway! Click on each foto to blow it up big. Enjoy!

The Author & his kids & the family dog at one of the overlooks along the Twin Falls Trail in Olallie State Park. L2R: Talia (in pink jacket), Katie (just behind her), me, William (in back), Morgan (who now goes by Dylan), & Jo, short for Joline, our English Springer Spaniel. Foto by Kristina. Sunday 13 February 2005.

We were a blended family, a goofy family, & we loved to get silly. We faced many challenges of blending post-double divorce family born of a wild and yet strategic mix of polyamory, intentional community, and devotion to conscious parenting. Kristina & I sought to ground our blended family outdoors in nature and indoors with fellow communitarians. For us, deep relationship was a spiritual practice, a challenging practice, and one demanding constant practice with ever-evolving self-awareness. In the moment, however, hugs & fun & even an, “Uh, Dad, what is going on?” is everything. And now, with the passage of time, forever gone.

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