Our second family dayhike at Ebey’s Landing on Whidbey Island this year, Sunday 7 March 2010

Morgan in green and Kate in blue with Jo Dog in the middle at the Big Dead Tree. We’re atop the bluffs of Ebey’s Landing above Perego’s Lagoon below and the Salish Sea beyond.
Kristina and I returned to Ebey’s landing 15 days after our first visit of the year there and three days before our house burned down. The weather was worse on this second trip. Chilly. Cloudy. Glorious beauty tinged with brooding melancholy, perhaps hints of what was to come, an unconscious uncertainty with a major era in our lives was soon coming to an end as the Great Recession continued to grind on. Even so, we’re out here moving our bodies in nature, activating our minds, working thru our blended family relationship conflicts, grumbling about the weather and still in awe of the magnificent scenery of Ebey’s Landing. This time it was Morgan, who now goes by Dylan, and Kate, my daughters from my ex-wife and still good friend Gwen and stepdaughters to my then-current wife Kristina, who piled into the same minivan with me, Kristina, and Jo Jo Jolie, our English springer spaniel with liver-colored spots. Some weekends Talia is with her bio-dad and stepmother, as she was this time. On other weekends, however, Morgan and Kate are with their mom and stepdad, as they were last time. On yet other weekends all three are with me and Kristina, and once in a while none of them are. It’s not necessarily an organized rotation, tho it often is, but more depends on what the various parents and co-parents planned and agreed to follow. Blended family dynamics are constantly changing in our community.
Ebey’s Landing is a National Historical Reserve and State Park. It’s a unique integration of national park, state park, and local town and county parks. It’s about halfway up the westward edge of Whidbey Island, the largest island in the State of Washington. Whidbey’s also the 40th largest within the United States of America. It is long, slender island and a somewhat crooked extension of a cluster of archipelagos linked together in the Salish Sea. We were happy to be back even tho the weather felt more forbidding than our previous visit. Fresh air and exercise with beautiful and expansive views of nature haunted by gloomy graves amidst the threat of stormy weather made Ebey’s Landing inviting. Well, certainly for us grownups (LOL?).

We start off in Sunnyside Cemetery above the prairie as we did last time, but in a different corner of the graveyard.

Death & rebirth as life feeds upon the dead. Winter still rules the calendar, and this early March Sunday feels more wintry, chilly, and overcast than our last visit here.

We leave the macabre feel of primeval frontier Gothic/Romantic graves behind us, but the feeling haunts us thru the weather. Here, my oldest daughter, Morgan (nowadays Dylan), soon to turn 16, roams alone along the cliffs.

As a father, I’m proud of my daughters. Each one is so wonderfully different yet each share more in common than not. I’m very proud of them. Am proud of Morgan who now goes by Dylan. And, yes, I worry about them, even tho worrying doesn’t help with anything, yet still I fret. Often, however, it’s sadness over my own mistakes and failures as a father in today’s world. Regardless of what I did or didn’t do, eventually each child is their own person and choose their own way forward thru the circumstances, challenges, and opportunities of their time. I love my kids completely anyway. In this foto, however, what thoughts go thru their mind? What does their heart feel?

Perego’s Lagoon comes into view around the corner. Morgan took this picture of me, her Dad, with Kristina & Kate ahead of us.

Perego’s Lagoon is small and also a rarity, and its rich and diverse variety of frequently changing shorelines and water levels make it even more unique as a place to explore in the Pacific Northwest.

Morgan & Kathryn sit along the edge of the trail atop the bluffs. Morgan (who now goes by Dylan) is 15, soon to be 16 years along. Kathryn, aka Kate, is 11. Sometimes they get along great, and sometimes they do not. I love them both, tho, as well as Talia, who’s 7 & a coupla months away from turning 8.

Perhaps the local rare prickly pear cactuses growing on the sandy bluffs are also a metaphor for family conflicts.

The Big Dead Tree is the grand centerpiece along the top of the bluffs. These days over a decade later nothing’s left from a log of crumbling wood as a once mighty giant decays further into the soil to better nourish whatever lives there now. Every trip out there all of my kids and their dog loved playing on and around it. We often stopped for snacks there, too.

It’s a long ways down! While rolling down the hill like Jack ‘n’ Jill seems tempting, the long, steep grassy slopes usually continue on down to the beaches, in some places such as below us here these cliffs stop to drop 10 to 20 feet further or more over sheer cliffs onto rocks and logs.

Had to laugh as I took this picture of my wife at the time and daughter. Kate, what’s with that face? Kristina, what excites you so much? Those two have always had an interesting dynamic, clashing often, yet with similar personality traits such as stubborn, willful, and impulsive. Kristina aspires to share inspiring life lessons, and while Kate groans listening to them, she ends up incorporating what she learned from her Stepmom. In the background Morgan, a future long-distance backpacker, inspects the earth.

Piles of driftwood from across the Salish Sea are swept by wind, waves, & tides into fortress-like walls along the edges of Perego’s Lagoon. Pics by Morgan Bass.

More toes! As Morgan’s bio-dad I, too, can spread open my left toes much more so than those on my right foot, LOL

Looking across the upper lagoon to where the high bluffs trail zigzags down to beach at the end of the enclosed spit.

Today our white dwarf star the Sun feels more like a baleful orb in a dark syfy fantasy movie. Hard to believe our trip here 2 weeks ago in February felt so spring like but this one in March feels so wintry. Such is the constant churning of weather as the seasons change from one into the next turn of the Wheel of the Year.

The Mythic Cave where the teeny tiny Cyclops chap lives in a log with his flock of pillbugs, those roly-poly woodlice also called Armadillidiidae.

Kate asked him what he was doing. The man replied he was cleaning up trash along the beach, saw this, and decided to raft it down towards the parking lot. He also seemed a wee bit eccentric. Struck me as a Postmodern, dystopian Huck Finn.
William Dudley Bass
Thursday 1 May 2025
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NOTES:
Guides to the greater Ebey’s Park Complex:
Ebey’s Landing National Historical Reserve Washington, National Park Service.
https://www.nps.gov/ebla/index.htm.
Ebey’s Landing National Historical Reserve, The Friends of Ebey’s 501(c)3.
https://www.ebeysreserve.com.
Ebey’s Landing, Washington State Park Foundation.
https://waparks.org/parks/ebeys-landing/.
Info on Perego’s Lagoon:
Shipman, Hugh. “Perego’s Lagoon,” Gravel Beach, Dec 2015,
https://gravelbeach.blogspot.com/2015/12peregos-lagoon.html.
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