Kristina. She and I have a long, complex history intertwined with personal & professional growth trainings, intentional communities, polyamory, blended families, coparenting, business, love, sex, divorce, spirituality, world history & travel, and friendship. I loved this woman deeply, she who’s now my third ex-wife. Still love her, too, as I do all of my ex-wives and indeed everyone I have ever loved. Love is amazing and it’s expression constantly changing. To love deeply beyond the fickle effervescence of emotions, thoughts, and feelings, however, is a choice.